The meaning of love

Love means to love someone regardless of how they feel about you and love them for who they are regardless of their beliefs. Love is the key ingredient of having happy and healthy relationships. No matter how long the relationship or how good the lover is in the relationship there will forever be times when that person will disappoint you. We never forget that love in our whole life. We will fall in love but never rises to up. Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. Love refers to a deep, ineffable feeling to tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however encompasses a wealth of different feeling, from passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to non sexual emotional closeness or familiarity and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religion love. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and owing to its central psychological importance is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

Love is the silent language of heart. It is expressed by eyes. Since from a very long time ago people have searched the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers with their profound definitions could not fully touch its true essence.

"Love is that first feelings you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."

"When someone loves you , the way she says your name is always different. You know your name is safe in her mouth".

Love is when someone hurts and you get so mad but don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings .

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before and exactly as they will be in the future - because people change all the time,so if you love the person you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.

To love someone perfectly is to love him in good and bad time .I then ask you a question,what does love means to you?

love is a Decision

Many people are confused and think that the giddy feelings when your relationship first starts is love. Love is much more then your stomach flipping or the goose bumps you get when he/she touches your hand. One must understand that this is infatuation and not true love. True love is being able to say I will love you no matter what. There is nothing in this world that will stop me. I will love you even when I don't like you or what you are doing. Parents tend to have this with their children but someone who is very lucky will have this with their spouse. How do you know if you have this type of love? The answer to that question is only time will tell. This is why it's important to date a while to see if this is the type of decision that you can make. You want to know that when you make that decision to love someone it's a permanent thing and one that you want to be sure your mate has for you. Marriage is usually the result of this decision.

Unfortunately there are times when a decision to make things permanent was a poor decision and you can no longer live with this person. Maybe this person is physical or mentally abusive. We all know there are relationships like this. This is when it is time to move on. This does not mean that you stop loving that person after all they are children of God too. It only means that this person is no longer a person who builds you up but rather a person that brings yo down. Staying in a relationship like this is harmful to both parties. Leaving this type of relationship also does not mean you can never find love again. We are humans and our hearts are big and we have the capacity of loving many people.

Debbie Krause aka Dr. Mama Love
http://www.askdrmamalove.com

love is a Decision

Many people are confused and think that the giddy feelings when your relationship first starts is love. Love is much more then your stomach flipping or the goose bumps you get when he/she touches your hand. One must understand that this is infatuation and not true love. True love is being able to say I will love you no matter what. There is nothing in this world that will stop me. I will love you even when I don't like you or what you are doing. Parents tend to have this with their children but someone who is very lucky will have this with their spouse. How do you know if you have this type of love? The answer to that question is only time will tell. This is why it's important to date a while to see if this is the type of decision that you can make. You want to know that when you make that decision to love someone it's a permanent thing and one that you want to be sure your mate has for you. Marriage is usually the result of this decision.

Unfortunately there are times when a decision to make things permanent was a poor decision and you can no longer live with this person. Maybe this person is physical or mentally abusive. We all know there are relationships like this. This is when it is time to move on. This does not mean that you stop loving that person after all they are children of God too. It only means that this person is no longer a person who builds you up but rather a person that brings yo down. Staying in a relationship like this is harmful to both parties. Leaving this type of relationship also does not mean you can never find love again. We are humans and our hearts are big and we have the capacity of loving many people.

Debbie Krause aka Dr. Mama Love
http://www.askdrmamalove.com

WHAT DO YOU LOVE?

I know you love people? You love things? You love people and not things? You love things and not people? Love yourself?You love whatever you're addicted to?You love money?

1. The feeling of defeat can be a definite turn on for someone who doesn't succeed at anything except defeat. The point here is to find what you love.

You see, everyone loves something. Even the person who says he doesn't know how to love. At the bare minimum, he loves the feeling of not knowing how to love, simply because he is in his "comfort zone." If nothing else, people love to be in their comfort zone, even if the comfort zone excludes love.

I say again, everyone loves something. It may be in different degrees, but it's still a form of love.

If someone asked you if you felt loved, and your answer was "no," but you wished you did, then this article is for you.

Lot's of people don't feel loved, but wished they did. The problem is, they don't know how. They don't realize that love can be a learned response.

There are people out there who are loved, who are loving, and who love. Lots of times, but not always, one person is all three. Are you saying to yourself, "Yeah, that's THEM. I'm ME. Nobody loves me." That may be your reality, but it's not law. I say: If you can think, you can learn. If you can learn, you can love. If you can love, you can be loved.

Practice loving yourself, and understand and believe that what goes around comes around. It's that simple.

Once you love yourself, you will automatically send out love.

We're not talking romantic love here. We're talking basic life -- we're-happy-to-be-alive-we're-in-love-with-the-word= love.

My life turned around once I discovered how to love myself.

Do you want to know how I did it? Here's how=

Whenever I had a negative thought, I said, "Thank you, Lord!"

I triggered myself to immediately recognize that I was having a negative thought, and to say, "Thank you, Lord!" in its place!

The minute a thought came in that said anything negative, I went immediately to "Thank you, Lord!" Your words could be the same or different. It doesn't matter as long as you replace your negativity with something that isn't negative. Your words could be, "Hot dang! I did it again! I ain't going to do that no more!", and then smile like you've never smiled before. It really doesn't matter. Whatever you choose to say will stop the old habit of thinking badly, and the smile alone will do wonders. When you get the negative thoughts gone, you'll have plenty of room to feel the love you are giving yourself!

Take control of your life and your thoughts now. Stop the bad thought the minute the first word comes out and replace it with words that you now "choose" to say.

In other words, say what makes you feel good and nullifies the situation, taking away the negativity.

In case, you didn't realize it, negativity does not promote love. We need to promote love in ALL our thoughts, so we can become used to having love in our lives.

What you are really doing is helping yourself immensely. You know how? Remember that I said, What goes around, comes around? You've now decided to stop the bad from going out. That, alone, will change your life around. Make it a point to only send out good.

Truly. Only YOU can decide. Only you can fill your life with love. Once you have love inside, you'll receive more of it, because that's what you'll be sending out AND that's what's coming back to you.

It is real=stick with true love.

I know you love people? You love things? You love people and not things? You love things and not people? Do you love yourself? Do you love whatever you're addicted to? Do you love money? Do you love the thrill of the chase? Do you love the feeling of defeat?

TIP: Don't laugh. The feeling of defeat can be a definite turn on for someone who doesn't succeed at anything except defeat. The point here is to find what you love.

You see, everyone loves something. Even the person who says he doesn't know how to love. At the bare minimum, he loves the feeling of not knowing how to love, simply because he is in his "comfort zone." If nothing else, people love to be in their comfort zone, even if the comfort zone excludes love.

Again, I say, everyone loves something. It may be in varying degrees, but it's still a form of love.

If someone asked you if you felt loved, and your answer was "no," but you wished you did, then this article is for you.

Lot's of people don't feel loved, but wished they did. The problem is, they don't know how. They don't realize that love can be a learned response.

There are people out there who are loved, who are loving, and who love. Lots of times, but not always, one person is all three. Are you saying to yourself, "Yeah, that's THEM. I'm ME. Nobody loves me." That may be your reality, but it's not law. I say: If you can think, you can learn. If you can learn, you can love. If you can love, you can be loved.

Practice loving yourself, and understand and believe that what goes around comes around. It's that simple.

Once you love yourself, you will automatically send out love.

TIP: We're not talking romantic love here. We're talking basic life -- we're-happy-to-be-alive-we're-in-love-with-the-world love.

My life turned around once I discovered how to love myself.

Do you want to know how I did it? Here's how:

Whenever I had a negative thought, I said, "Thank you, Lord!"

I triggered myself to immediately recognize that I was having a negative thought, and to say, "Thank you, Lord!" in its place!

The minute a thought came in that said anything negative, I went immediately to "Thank you, Lord!" Your words could be the same or different. It doesn't matter as long as you replace your negativity with something that isn't negative. Your words could be, "Hot dang! I did it again! I ain't going to do that no more!", and then smile like you've never smiled before. It really doesn't matter. Whatever you choose to say will stop the old habit of thinking badly, and the smile alone will do wonders. When you get the negative thoughts gone, you'll have plenty of room to feel the love you are giving yourself!

Take control of your life and your thoughts now. Stop the bad thought the minute the first word comes out and replace it with words that you now "choose" to say.

In other words, say what makes you feel good and nullifies the situation, taking away the negativity.

TIP: In case, you didn't realize it, negativity does not promote love. We need to promote love in ALL our thoughts, so we can become used to having love in our lives.

What you are really doing is helping yourself immensely. You know how? Remember that I said, What goes around, comes around? You've now decided to stop the bad from going out. That, alone, will change your life around. Make it a point to only send out good.

Truly. Only YOU can decide. Only you can fill your life with love. Once you have love inside, you'll receive more of it, because that's what you'll be sending out AND that's what's coming back.

Thanks for reading,
Jan

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH

Love indeed is the ultimate, there are certain things that is needed in company with LOVE.They compliments love and add colour to it.

i must tell you that for love to continue in couple's life,this ingredients am talking about must be there working full time.They are always lasting with love.lets go to mention some of the things am talking about now.

1. UNDERSTANDING/ACCOMMODATION = This is one of the ingredients that must be in a relationship especially marriage for it to succeed.please my dear reader,if your love/marriage must last to the end,don't neglect this,whether you are born again or not,if you don't accommodate the excesses of each other,your marriage won't last,you will always quarrel day in day out,come on my friend,remember that both of you are not of same background or even if you are, have you not seen brothers and sisters quarreling over nothing.The cause of the fight or quarrel is lack of accommodation.The lack of it always causes fight,quarrel,divorce etc.so i advice you my dear that in all your gettings please get UNDERSTANDING AND ACCOMMODATION SPIRIT.


2.TRUST= when trust is lacking in a relationship,forget it, it will soon clash.Trust is a vital aspect of a relationship,take or leave it,it makes a relationship to last longer than you can imagine.So please if you have been lacking it,i advice that you get it fast before you are ruined for lack of it.


Dear friends,

i hope you have learned something that you will work,be rest assured that you will get result only if you act on it.Above all,the two ingredients will make you to enjoy your relationship.

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH

Love indeed is the ultimate as