The meaning of love

Love means to love someone regardless of how they feel about you and love them for who they are regardless of their beliefs. Love is the key ingredient of having happy and healthy relationships. No matter how long the relationship or how good the lover is in the relationship there will forever be times when that person will disappoint you. We never forget that love in our whole life. We will fall in love but never rises to up. Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. Love refers to a deep, ineffable feeling to tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however encompasses a wealth of different feeling, from passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to non sexual emotional closeness or familiarity and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religion love. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and owing to its central psychological importance is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

Love is the silent language of heart. It is expressed by eyes. Since from a very long time ago people have searched the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers with their profound definitions could not fully touch its true essence.

"Love is that first feelings you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."

"When someone loves you , the way she says your name is always different. You know your name is safe in her mouth".

Love is when someone hurts and you get so mad but don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings .

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before and exactly as they will be in the future - because people change all the time,so if you love the person you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.

To love someone perfectly is to love him in good and bad time .I then ask you a question,what does love means to you?

love is a Decision

Many people are confused and think that the giddy feelings when your relationship first starts is love. Love is much more then your stomach flipping or the goose bumps you get when he/she touches your hand. One must understand that this is infatuation and not true love. True love is being able to say I will love you no matter what. There is nothing in this world that will stop me. I will love you even when I don't like you or what you are doing. Parents tend to have this with their children but someone who is very lucky will have this with their spouse. How do you know if you have this type of love? The answer to that question is only time will tell. This is why it's important to date a while to see if this is the type of decision that you can make. You want to know that when you make that decision to love someone it's a permanent thing and one that you want to be sure your mate has for you. Marriage is usually the result of this decision.

Unfortunately there are times when a decision to make things permanent was a poor decision and you can no longer live with this person. Maybe this person is physical or mentally abusive. We all know there are relationships like this. This is when it is time to move on. This does not mean that you stop loving that person after all they are children of God too. It only means that this person is no longer a person who builds you up but rather a person that brings yo down. Staying in a relationship like this is harmful to both parties. Leaving this type of relationship also does not mean you can never find love again. We are humans and our hearts are big and we have the capacity of loving many people.

Debbie Krause aka Dr. Mama Love
http://www.askdrmamalove.com

love is a Decision

Many people are confused and think that the giddy feelings when your relationship first starts is love. Love is much more then your stomach flipping or the goose bumps you get when he/she touches your hand. One must understand that this is infatuation and not true love. True love is being able to say I will love you no matter what. There is nothing in this world that will stop me. I will love you even when I don't like you or what you are doing. Parents tend to have this with their children but someone who is very lucky will have this with their spouse. How do you know if you have this type of love? The answer to that question is only time will tell. This is why it's important to date a while to see if this is the type of decision that you can make. You want to know that when you make that decision to love someone it's a permanent thing and one that you want to be sure your mate has for you. Marriage is usually the result of this decision.

Unfortunately there are times when a decision to make things permanent was a poor decision and you can no longer live with this person. Maybe this person is physical or mentally abusive. We all know there are relationships like this. This is when it is time to move on. This does not mean that you stop loving that person after all they are children of God too. It only means that this person is no longer a person who builds you up but rather a person that brings yo down. Staying in a relationship like this is harmful to both parties. Leaving this type of relationship also does not mean you can never find love again. We are humans and our hearts are big and we have the capacity of loving many people.

Debbie Krause aka Dr. Mama Love
http://www.askdrmamalove.com